Is Your Pet’s Behaviour Telling You Something?
It can be heartbreaking to see your pet anxious, reactive, or withdrawn — especially when you’re doing everything you can to make them feel safe and loved.
But when pets show signs of fear, aggression, or anxiety, they’re not being “naughty.” They’re trying to tell us something.
At My Kind of Vet, we help families on the Gold Coast and South Brisbane understand what their pets are communicating and find gentle, evidence-based ways to support them.
Why You Should Start with a Veterinary Behaviour Consultation
When behaviour problems appear, it’s tempting to go straight to a dog trainer or search online for advice.
However, many behaviour changes — from reactivity to toileting issues — can be linked to underlying medical conditions, pain, or chronic stress.
That’s why it’s essential to start with a behaviour consultation with your vet.
We can rule out health causes, assess emotional wellbeing, and design a personalised plan before referring you to a qualified trainer or veterinary behaviourist if needed.
Our approach follows the principles promoted by the Australian Veterinary Association and Fear Free Pets: compassionate, science-based, and built on trust.
Signs Your Pet May Be Struggling
It’s not always obvious when a pet is feeling anxious or fearful.
Here are some subtle signs to watch for:
Dogs:
Licking lips, yawning, or “whale eyes” (whites visible)
Trembling, hiding, or trying to escape
Excessive barking, lunging, or growling
Changes in appetite or sleep
Overexcitement that’s hard to calm
Cats:
Hiding or avoiding contact
Urinating or defecating outside the litter tray
Excessive grooming or scratching
Hissing, swiping, or tail flicking
Increased vocalisation or restlessness
These are not signs of disobedience — they’re signals of distress.
Understanding and responding early can prevent long-term anxiety.
For more on reading body language, visit the RSPCA Knowledgebase or International Cat Care.
Anxiety Management: It’s Not Just About Medication
Anxiety is a medical and emotional condition — and like any health issue, it needs the right treatment plan.
At My Kind of Vet, we use a multi-step approach that may include:
Environmental adjustments and routine support
Desensitisation and training with positive reinforcement
Natural supplements or nutraceuticals
Medication if necessary — prescribed safely and individually
Medication doesn’t sedate pets or “change who they are.” It helps them feel calm enough to learn, heal, and thrive.
For ongoing training support, we recommend seeking a qualified positive-reinforcement professional, such as those certified by the Delta Institute.
Fear-Free Veterinary Care Matters
Many anxious pets develop fear of the vet after stressful past experiences.
Our fear-free approach ensures every visit is gentle, quiet, and tailored to your pet’s comfort.
We use pheromone diffusers, soft bedding, treats, and time — helping pets associate the vet with safety, not fear.
You can learn more about the science behind this method on Fear Free Pets.
How a Behaviour Consultation Works
During your pet’s appointment at My Kind of Vet, you can expect:
A full discussion of your pet’s history, environment, and triggers.
A physical exam to rule out pain or illness.
A behavioural assessment and diagnosis.
A tailored management plan combining environment, training, and (if needed) medication.
A written summary and follow-up support from our team.
Our goal is to help you understand your pet’s emotions and give them the tools they need to feel secure.
When to Ask for Help
If your pet:
Panics during storms or fireworks
Struggles with separation or travel
Growls, lunges, or hides frequently
Soils inappropriately or overgrooms
Trembles at vet visits or car rides
…it’s time for a conversation. Early support can change your pet’s life.
